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Can You Be Friends (with Benefits)?

One of my readers wrote in recently with this query: What’s your stance on friend’s with benefits? Yay or nay? I’ve done it twice in my late 20s and ended up getting emotionally attached after doing the deed. This led to heartache (on my part) and...

New Year, New You: Just Own It

It’s not that I don’t like resolutions. I think resolutions are great. I make them on a regular basis. I’m all about self-improvement and transformation, recognizing your faults and actively working to change them. What I’ve never been a fan of are New Year’s...

I’ll See You Maybe: Our Culture of Unaccountability

So there’s this thing that everyone else seems to think is okay, which makes me feel like I’m a bitch because it bugs me, but I suspect that it actually bugs other people, we’ve just gotten so used to it that we don’t think to complain.When I...

Get Off Your Ass

During my first term at UCLA, I had the privilege of taking a class with Howard Suber. For anyone interested in how stories are told –be they in books or on the big screen — or merely in human nature and the patterns of human behavior, his perspective is...