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It Takes Two (to Watch TV)

by | Feb 27, 2014 | Journal

I recently received this letter from one of my readers: I haven’t had much success with men and, the majority of the time, I thought it was them. Granted, there were several men who were legitimate assholes that deserved to be dismissed. However, there were...

Love is a Peculiar Thing

by | Feb 13, 2014 | Journal

Love is a peculiar thing. So many people want it, so many people crave it, so many write about it and sing about it and commodify it—and yet it remains elusive, hard to find while also seemingly everywhere. There is the love between mother and child, between pet and...

In Real Life, Images Are Larger Than They Appear

by | Feb 3, 2014 | Journal

The sexual revolution, for better and for worse, has been superseded by fears of HPV and HIV. And thanks to technology, people have continued to disappear, sending out blips of communication through Twitter posts and Facebook status updates. In-person communication...

Danger, Danger! Red Flags Ahead!

by | Jan 26, 2014 | Journal

When you start dating someone, everyone always warns you about red flags. Watch out for the red flags, they say, in that condescendingly cautionary tone. So what are red flags? Red flags are those little things someone does that signal huge problems lurking just under...

Hey Guys, Carpe That Fucking Diem Already

by | Jan 15, 2014 | Journal

Want to know what’s wrong with dating in LA? Well, here’s one of the things that’s wrong with dating in LA — and I think it’s a guy thing. In the last couple days, one guy told me that I was intimidating. And another guy told me that,...